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Old 07-02-2014, 02:42 PM   #1
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Parenting question - Bullying

So last night one of the kids says to us that they didn't want to go to school tomorrow.

Which is unusual for him as he usually behaves and dont usually complain

so naturally we say don't be silly , you have to go to school.

In which he replies he doesn't want to.

so we ask why not and he said that he is being bullied.

So we ask what happened etc, he says he is being followed around playground and the odd push etc and also his friends turnt against him by the bully.

Now what do we do. Have already spoken to the school about it.

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Old 07-02-2014, 02:49 PM   #2
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You've already done the best thing in telling the school about it. Now you just have to hope they are professional enough to make sure they keep on top of it. The only other thing to do is to make sure he knows that the best thing he can do is ignore it and if it does happen don't react to the bully but tell his class teacher, and that none of it's his fault and it's the bully who has a problem not him. Best of luck.

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Old 07-02-2014, 03:21 PM   #3
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What Slim says.

I was a really nasty kid at school and did my fair share of bullying and now I am in my older years I really look back with distaste. The majority of the time a bully will get bored if there is no reaction. But in the odd instances where a bully is intent on making said child's life misery they will continue to do so on a daily basis. This is where you have done the right thing and let the school know.

Hopefully your school of choice is better than the one my sister was at where for 4 years she was bullied on a daily basis till she broke down. Boys bully by pushing around and taunting...girls on the other hand are the worst. They will destroy an individual from the inside out relentlessly. Stop it now before it can escalate anymore.
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Old 07-02-2014, 03:23 PM   #4
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What Slim said,
keep an eye open for physical marks & don't over react
when he tells you stuff, you need to keep all comms open.

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Old 07-02-2014, 04:30 PM   #5
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I hope we have caught it early. I did to ignore him and walk away.

I admit I wasn't best at school but also took my fair share from the big kid.

I'm hoping its just a school argument and he not sure of the difference.

Thanks for the advice guys

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Old 07-02-2014, 09:25 PM   #6
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Good news is he said the kid is leaving him alone now.

I must have forgot to ad to Op but I told him to just stare at them and they will leave him alone and he said he did it and haven't bothered him.

He was first person I spoke to when I got in after work and felt Really proud that I helped him.

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That's great news...... Fingers crossed ehhhh.
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